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Ever wanted a threesome? Of course you have. Every straight man wants a three some with two girls (with one girl and one guy it is commonly referred to as 'the devil's threesome'). Most straight girls would probably prefer two guys (but most straight guys are not into this). Threesomes are touchy. It's all about attention, pleasure and feelings. A lot of hesitancy about them in relationships is due to jealousy. Sex is an intimate thing, and seeing the one you love being that intimate and pleasured by someone else can hurt. But if you're going to have a threesome, you need to detach yourself from these kinds of feelings and remind yourself that it's purely about the physical act--it doesn't mean anything more.

Once you decide on the person, things can get started. Set ground rules. Maybe you as a couple are the only two that can have vaginal intercourse, but the third can engage in oral or manual sex. Communication is key. It is important to check in on everyone's feelings on the matter. Bringing in someone you know well might be good for the comfort factor, but it might be awkward. Same with bringing in a stranger. It's difficult to tell someone who to bring in, but make sure it's someone you both feel comfortable with& attracted to, and that neither of you has any kind of loving feelings for.

Now, the threesome itself. Make sure you pay as much attention to your partner as you do the third. It could be hard because it's always going to be exciting with a new person. But if you don't, your partner might get jealous, and nothing will be fun.

Positions:



Three ways are just like two-ways, except that while you and your partner are having sex doggy style, your girlfriend/wife could be blowing someone else. It's all about pleasure, that's really what threesomes are for--double the pleasure.

1. Doggy style/anal--Man takes girl from behind while the girl blows the other guy/eats out the other girl.

2. Double penetration--Two men next to each other or on top of each other, on top of the girl. This can be either both penises in her vagina or one in the vagina, one in the anus.

3. Making out--Two could be making out while one performs oral on one, or both, or oral on one, manual on the other.

4. 69--The man can be receiving a blow job while eating out the other person.

5. For her pleasure--The man can lay on his back while one girl rides on top and the other sits on his face to receive oral.

Just be safe, and have fun. There are no rules to threesomes. Just do what seems fun and pleasurable. Always ask before doing something new. And remember, communicate, pay attention to all, and be safe. Have fun!!! :)

Sources:
AskMen--Positions for Threesomes.

Comments

  1. What about orgies?

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  2. Orgies are pretty much the same, just with more people. Make sure you pay attention to everyone. No one should be standing not receiving pleasure. Switch off partners, use protection. Have fun!!!

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  3. Two penises in one vagina sounds like a very tricky task...

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  4. It isn't easy!!! It takes a lot of trust, lack of inhibitions when it comes to both sexes and good maneuvering. ;)

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