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I will hopefully be using some of the information contained in here to write some blog posts!! :).

Sex & Religion

An old friend of mine from high school and I were talking the other day, and she brought up the topic of sex within Christianity. This got me thinking about sex and how it relates to religion. Considering the fact that roughly 33% of the world's population is Christian, it deserves a look at how the people of the religion view sex. Sex in the Bible: (I am going to be basing this purely off The New Testament). Let's start with premarital sex. Christians, especially the older ones, are always preaching against pre-marital sex. But where in the Bible does it say this? Matthew 5:28: But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. But the definition of Adultery is 'voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse.'  So, yes, premarital sex would imply that a person is having sex with someone who is not their legal spouse but they are not necessarily c

Two Quick Things

1. I would like to point out that while there are posts about orgasm and things like that, sex is not about the ends. It's about the means. Acts of sexual pleasure should be just about that--the pleasure. The point of it should not be just to 'finish.' Of course, that makes it fun, but don't concentrate so hard on that end that you don't enjoy the means!! 2. Part of the reason I made this blog was to try and get my own advice column started. PLEASE email me with any questions about your sex life or relationships. Not only will it make me happy to be giving advice to all of you, it will also help me think of topics to write about!!

Female Orgasm, The G-Spot, and Ejaculation

  I've had a lot of suggestions to write about this. Why? Probably because most women are dying to know they're normal. And it's understandable. Googling anything about female orgasms, female ejaculations, female g-spots, or information about the vagina brings up very few reliable sources. Pleasure, in our society, falls so heavily on the men. But it's understandable, they're pretty easy to please. But the sad fact is that about 75% of women don't orgasm during intercourse. What's even more sad is that 10-15% don't orgasm ever. This is in contrast to 98% of men who orgasm every time. What the hell is up with that?!  Well, if you're one of the women that can orgasm in every conceivable way except during sex--don't fret!! It's totally common. The g-spot is difficult to stimulate during sex, and if yours isn't being stimulated, make sure the clit gets attention! A clitoral orgasm, whether brought on by friction during sex or fingers, is

Rape-aXe

**TRIGGER WARNING: This post talks about rape.**  I remember reading about a preventative rape 'condom' that would help women in third world countries were they to be raped. It's a little female condom that has spikes on the inside of it. When a man rapes a woman with the condom in, it will attach to the man's penis, leaving it indisposed until removed by a doctor. When the man goes to the doctor, they will know why they have the 'condom' stuck to themselves, and the cops will be called. It is used as a deterrent to rape. Yes, I agree with all the comments saying that women shouldn't have to take such measures, but unfortunately in our world today, something like this is useful. Hopefully, a rapist can be caught every time they encounter these 'condoms,' leaving the woman with at least some closure. Dr. Sonnet Ehlers from South America invented it. Her plan was to distribute about 30,000 free ones around where the World Cup was going to be taki