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And To All A Good Night

 Yikes. I told myself and my readers that I would focus this year. I guess that hasn't really happened, has it? I know I'm not going to get another chance to write before the new year, so since I am sitting in bed, alone, with Pandora blaring, I should type something out quick. This blog means a lot to me. But this year, I tried to make everything else mean a lot, too. I tried to get over my anxieties. I flew a plane! I started learning guitar, I sang on a stage (with friends, myself, and myself with my guitar!), I drove to Minneapolis, I saw my favorite comedy stars, I saw Tom Petty, I got myself into a concert for free by saying I knew the band and then actually meeting the band. I got back into the music I used to love & discovered so many new bands. I really rediscovered my love for music this year.  I met so many people, some who have stuck around, some who were here for a reason & moved on with their lives and became memories to me. Some I keep making memori

It's October!

I'm just horrible at keeping up a blog, aren't I? I've been trying to channel my creative side lately, and I've been wanting to write and draw a lot. So, I will try and keep up a lot better this month. If you have any questions you want answered, or any topics you want me to cover, please let me know. Anything to help with my (periodic, yet stifling) writer's block is much appreciated. In the meantime, please enjoy this video from CollegeHumor , which is the reason I have been less than productive in the past month. Their videos are just too damn addicting, and this one relates to my blog. It brings up a really interesting point, too. I think a lot of things he jokes about in the video are really true.   Why Sex is Like Magic.

National Orgasm Day!

I had no idea it was National Orgasm Day! That's crazy. Crazy AWESOME. Though we definitely don't need a specific dedicated to orgasm. An orgasm away keeps the doctor away, right? Or something like that. The awesome thing about this day is that you don't need anyone but yourself to celebrate (though it certainly doesn't hurt to have someone help you out ;) Honestly, I don't have much to say about the subject, but I am going to use this opportunity to say one thing that really bothers me. I've written about it in the past, and bring it up countless times in sex discussions, and it's so difficult to get men&women to understand. FIRST, there are two kinds of female orgasm--clitoral and vaginal. For some reason, there is this cultural stigma attached to sex that says that if a female has a clitoral orgasm as opposed to a vaginal one, it doesn't count. It DOES count; it's still an orgasm! As it is, only about 32% of women can orgasm vaginally from

Porn Sex Vs. Real Sex

  Hey guys! It's been quite awhile since I've posted in here, due to a very busy summer schedule. I have a lot of really interesting things packed away in my head, ready to be written about, when I have the time. To remind you all that I am, in fact, still interested in my blog, here is a little clip sent to me by a friend. The facts in this video are very entertaining, and a good reminder as to why we shouldn't compare our sex lives to those in porn videos. Enjoy!

I'm Starting My Week Off Right!!

Guys, I told you, I just woke up. Today, I woke up to some good things. I woke up to a higher view count on this here blog, I woke up to some great comments from anonymous web browsers, and I woke up to my newest story having been approved on Literotica . It's about a guy who starts a new job working in the IT department, and a sexy woman he works with. I like it, and I think you will too. Also, I'm always open for suggestions on stories to write or blog topics. Please comment or email me if you have a suggestion/request. I will try my best to work on getting that written. Read my story here-- sudo apt--get laid I've had people asking me when my website will be up. I've been super busy, but I want it to be before summer really gets going. Hopefully by June sometime, the site will be up. Keep checking back, because I will update you and let you know when it's going to be done. Last thing, for any of you who have been loyal followers of my blog for awhi

Happy National Masturbation Month/International Clitoris Awareness Week!

Hey everyone!                                     Jonah Falcon & Adam Barta's music video, 'It's Too Big.' It's been a really long time since I've written in here, and that is just not okay! Seems like we're finally getting some nice weather across the states here, and so I've been busy enjoying that and what not. I hope you all have, too. May is a time for warm weather. School lets out, and people start planning their summers. The only things I was aware of that happen in the month of May is the first as May Day and the last week being Memorial Day. But! I just found out that May is National Masturbation Month AND the week of May 6th-12th is International Clitoris Awareness Week! How awesome is that? The fact that these things are even being widely recognized is a huge step in normalizing sexuality in our culture, which is so refreshing. Philadelphia is even hosting a Masturbate-A-Thon . Basically, participants find sponsors who will pay t

What's your number?

                                                  Can I have yo numba? Can I have it? So, this clip isn't really related to what I'm talking about, but it's funny and I thought of it when I put this title in. I've noticed a lot lately that people are very interested in knowing how many people other people have been with. Maybe it's that they want to compare themselves and see how they measure up to others; Maybe they are simply curious. Either way, it's a difficult question to answer because we need to be able to universally define sex. If I asked you how many people you've had sex with, do you only count the ones you've had penetration with? Or do you consider oral or manual stimulation into your number? I suppose you could have a general count of all the people you've had activity with, and then break it down into oral and penetration. But to count 'sex' as only penetration doesn't exactly work for everyone. Gay men and lesbian wom

Happy Valentine's Day!

To all the happy couples, sad couples, complicated couples, happy singles and sad singles...happy Valentine's Day. I've always thought it was such a pointless holiday. Don't take it too seriously, either way. If you have someone to spend it with, give them a good night. If you're single, do something for yourself. Either way, have fun and be happy! :) *From someone who was way ahead of Monopoly etc...

All Apologies...

Hey, everyone. So, the week of Christmas, my laptop decided to stop working, causing me to have a really hard time writing a post. I just wanted to make a quick post to let you all know that I have a bunch of ideas for posts that I will be writing up soon, now that I have a computer in my possession again. Stay tuned. And, as always, feel free to comment or email me about any questions/ideas for posts you might have! Thanks!! :)