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Interviews with Strangers

Alright, I've been thinking about things a lot and I've decided to start something new. I've always struggled with motivation. I really love the 'People of New York' project, which is a photographer who takes pictures of random people in NY/elsewhere and then posts the picture on Facebook, along with a quote from the person. It's super interesting. The idea of that combined with people offering up their sexual histories/fantasies to me has made me decide to do my own interviews. For this first week, I have interviewed two people--a man and a woman, unrelated and who don't know each other--of similar ages (late 20's). I think it's interesting to see how their answers compare and contrast. Since this is my first week doing it, the questions are pretty basic. I do have someone in mind that I have interviewed a bit before, and his story is really interesting. I'll post that in an upcoming one, after I talk with him some more.

We don't like to think about our bosses, parents, or neighbors having sex. But the thing is--they probably do have sex, and it could be more often than you, or more kinky than yours. I think it's interesting to think about. So, I'm going to post both short interviews here. Due to the intimate nature of the questions, both of my interviewees this week wanted to remain anonymous. First, I will show you Mike Honcho's answers in blue, and then Tiffany's answers in red (just to keep it simple).

How many relationships have you been in, and how long was the longest one?

Four, and four years (currently single)
Three serious, 6.5 years with Zach*, this month is two years with Ben*

*names changed

At what age did you lose your virginity?

18
18, Christmas Day

Most memorable sexual experience?

No answer.
Giving Ben head and how amazed he was that I swallowed. He still talks about it almost two years later.

How many people have you been with?

10.
14.

What's the craziest place you've had sex outside of the bedroom?

An alley with my friends inside drinking at the bar. With a girl I had met probably 20 mins. earlier. I was hammered.
My parent's backyard.

Have you ever had a homosexual experience?

Nope.
Nope.

If your significant other allowed you a free pass to sleep with someone else, who would it be?

Olivia Wilde.          
Real life person--Chris! The lawn guy at work. Celebrity--Robin Van Persie

Favorite body part on the opposite gender?

Legs and ass. Also, eyes are big for me. It depends on the woman, too.
I notice height first. But eyes and smile, arms and hands are good, too!

Favorite position?

From behind, lying down, girl on her stomach. Or from behind/girl on top (if skilled).
Me on top, orgasm every time!

Do you like giving/receiving oral?

I enjoy giving or receiving.
Sure do!

What's your view on porn?

It's there for people to experience things that they probably wouldn't get to on their own.
I watch it, but stay away from [some things].        

Bonus question for Tiffany, who's boyfriend is in prison right now on drug charges.
How much of your relationship has Ben been gone?

We dated for six months before he got locked up.

What do you miss most about Ben being gone?

I can't just call or text him when I'm having a bad day, I have to wait for him to call me. Spending time together, watching movies, just doing things couples do.

Thanks so much for letting me interview you, guys! I will being trying to do this at least once a week, and I'd really like to interview random strangers and/or friends with interesting sex lives! Or maybe even super boring ones! If you'd like to be interviewed or have questions you'd like me to ask in my interviews, please comment here or email me at the-sexkitten@hotmail.com. You may remain anonymous if you'd prefer. Since winter is pretty much here, I'm going to be trying really hard to keep up on this. I have started my Twitter back up (and it's really annoying because I had almost 900 followers before and should never have deleted it), so please follow me on there @The_SexKittenK. Thanks guys! :)

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