National Orgasm Day!

I had no idea it was National Orgasm Day! That's crazy. Crazy AWESOME. Though we definitely don't need a specific dedicated to orgasm. An orgasm away keeps the doctor away, right? Or something like that. The awesome thing about this day is that you don't need anyone but yourself to celebrate (though it certainly doesn't hurt to have someone help you out ;) Honestly, I don't have much to say about the subject, but I am going to use this opportunity to say one thing that really bothers me. I've written about it in the past, and bring it up countless times in sex discussions, and it's so difficult to get men&women to understand. FIRST, there are two kinds of female orgasm--clitoral and vaginal. For some reason, there is this cultural stigma attached to sex that says that if a female has a clitoral orgasm as opposed to a vaginal one, it doesn't count. It DOES count; it's still an orgasm! As it is, only about 32% of women can orgasm vaginally from just pure intercourse. MOST women need clitoral stimulation. It is nothing to be ashamed of, it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, and it absolutely most definitely 100% DOES NOT mean you aren't pleasuring her correctly. Please. If I had a dollar for every time I've heard a woman say she can't orgasm through sex alone and her partner felt like it was their fault, I could quit my day job. Just stop worrying about whether you can or can't. Relax & do what feels good for you. And on this, the national day of orgasm, especially, do what feels good. And those of you in other countries, this is your day, too, and everyday. Have fun! :)




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