1. I would like to point out that while there are posts about orgasm and things like that, sex is not about the ends. It's about the means. Acts of sexual pleasure should be just about that--the pleasure. The point of it should not be just to 'finish.' Of course, that makes it fun, but don't concentrate so hard on that end that you don't enjoy the means!!
2. Part of the reason I made this blog was to try and get my own advice column started. PLEASE email me with any questions about your sex life or relationships. Not only will it make me happy to be giving advice to all of you, it will also help me think of topics to write about!!